Oct
25
In piano class yesterday, Mr. Palmer was teaching Julia words to a song she will begin to play on the piano. There was a line about Father and Mother, so he asked Julia, “Who is Father?”
Julia turned around and pointed to Dave with a smile, “He’s right there!”
“And who is Mother?”
She pointed in my direction without even looking and said, “That.”
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“THAT” !!!!! OMG, the little monkey! I would have been gobsmacked if one of mine said that!
Don’t worry, Leslie. Julia is just going through a phase. She’ll grow out of it, but the next phase might involve knives.
Ah yeah, THAT!
You can borrow my mantra if you like? “It’s a phase, it will pass”
Amy at the moment thinks Mum is soooo boring and consequently grizzles all day for me, but if Daddy plays with her she is a whole different toddler. Ugh
Oh, nice, Julia. LOL!!!
All kids whose moms stay home with them go through this phase. They are with mommy all day long. Mommy looks forward to daddy coming home and the children learn that it’s an exciting time and they look forward to it too. I found that a moms night out where the kids are left with dad really helps. The kids are excited to see me again when I get home. It may be selfish but it helps me feel needed and loved by them. And I feel refreshed and ready to be a mommy again after I’ve had some time to myself.
Oh snap! The other day I was rubbing Zoe’s cheek and said, “You have the smoothest skin, sweetie. I want to have your soft skin.” She looked at my face and said, “But then if I had your skin I’d be kind of ugly.”
Double snap.
A Mom’s night out is exactly what you need. Sam is spot on with that diagnosis. I am going to the city (we live in the sticks) for two days (we are staying overnight yipee!) with a girlfriend of mine. We are going shopping and to a movie and out to eat several times and probably for a coffee or two. Just think, we can go to a bookstore and browse, for hours if we want to! Such luxury! So, my question is, are you coming with?
I am a SAHM of 2.
A 6 year old girl & a 12.75 year old boy.
My daughter is the same way at times.
Daddy is Godlike to her…..unless she is sick:P
I am just Mom….good ol’ dependable Mom.
It’s O.K. though….she can take me for granted. I know that someday she will realize all that I have done. At least she damn well better:)
I also think girls just naturally take to their Daddys more & boys to their Moms.
My son has always been closer to me than his Dad.
If your next one is a boy then you will see what I mean.
Don’t take it to heart Leslie….she loves you.
((((hugs)))) 4 u 2day.
It’s a phase. we only hurt the ones we love. Hugs to you!
I love Suzanne’s comment. That just cracks me up.
And I know that you know that is just a phase and I also know that knowing that doesn’t help you feel much better. So, I agree with everyone else…take a day to yourself and get away. Go baby shopping or, better yet, mommy shopping. Or you could come visit me for a weekend?
Cindy-Lu can show you how popular she is. LOL…sorry…couldn’t resist.
At first, I was shocked but quickly melted into hysterics! THAT? Very funny but very sassy!!
I have to agree with everyone - take some time off. I’m not saying Julia will miss you enough to grow out of this horrid phase immediately, but it can’t hurt.